Life's Journey, Woman to Woman

10 Dating Mistakes Women Make with Great MEN!

1. Suggesting to eat at the MOST EXPENSIVE restaurant. (You should also be willing to chip in, don't give off a selfish, I don't need you attitude. He will see you as being too independent and selfish)
2. Excessively WORRYING about getting played. (Understand that he is not desperate for you. Unless you place yourself "out there" to be played, he doesn't have the time. You should be smart about the dating scene in the first place.)
3. Lack of respectable dressing. Too much revealing clothing. (Let's face it! If you dress like you want to be paid for sex, then, that's how you will be treated. No brainer. Learn how to be sexy, feminine, and respectable in your dressing. For the Christian Woman she ought to display Christ in her dressing and not SEX)
4. Real men in the "marry" phase don't just want SEX! (Real men want to marry a woman for more than just SEX. They want spiritual, mental, and emotional connection. Remember he's probably had "better" than you sexually several times before. So, why would you categorize yourself in the same category? Set yourself apart to be looked at as "wife" material. If your man only wants sex, that says it's all you gave him.)
5. Pretending you're not talking to another guy when is becomes interested in you. (Acting as though you're not scoping someone else makes you look like a LIAR and an untrustworthy woman. Possibly a woman that would commit adultery later on. If no one else is interested in you, that may make him re-think why he should like you. Be upfront and let him know is you are interested in him solely, regardless of on lookers.)
6. Talking about your Ex and your past life a lot! (This shows that you are not over your EX and are still attached to him emotionally or in other ways. If you have not closed this chapter, you need to do so before beginning to date again. Soul searching is much needed for you.)
7. Lying about your past relationships and sexual past. (This shows that you are not trust worthy. Be honest and when you don't feel the need to delve into certain topics, let him know that you don't feel comfortable with him yet in that aspect.)
8. Having SEX with him. (If you bring him to the point of seeing you as his sex girl, then, that's all that you will get. You will never become his wife. A man can't go from she's my sex buddy, to she's my wife. Closing your legs is your part to do. He can't make you do so. No matter your past, you can close your legs for the present and future.)
9. Making things easy for him. (Not to make it too hard for him, but he should be willing to sacrifice for you. If he is not willing to sacrifice, he probably doesn't like you. Or, he may very well like you but, is not ready to be serious with anyone. You need to move on.)
10. Moving ahead without God's guidance. (Without your maker, who knows your deepest needs, you will never find TRUE LOVE. You may find what looks like real love, but you will never experience true Love from God and his chosen mate for you. Look at the divorce rates. Many people get married, but many don't stay HAPPILY MARRIED. Don't go into a relationship without seeking God first! PERIOD.)